Showing posts with label Children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Children. Show all posts

Aug 15, 2012

Break the Silence, Save a Life


The schools have started again and hundreds of first graders are out there again. Bullying is still, even in our smart society, a huge issue in schools. How to teach kids about bullying, what it is, how much it hurts and how it affects people even school is way in the past..?  

A teacher had a pretty effective way to approach the issue. She gave the children, a blank peace of white paper, each had one. The teacher asked the kids to look closely at the paper, how clean and white it is and then to make it a ball, twist it, turn it, fold it, kick it and step on it - no tearing apart though. After the beating up was done, she asked the class to each open their paper as straight as possible and say "I'm sorry". Then she told the class to look at the paper how grumbled, hurt and dirty it was and that that would be exactly what the bullied has gone through. And even though you say "I'm sorry", it did not and will not make the marks go away.



Oct 11, 2011

Enslaving People

Human trafficking around the world is reaching horrific proportions. With an estimated 12 million people worldwide living in slavery, human trafficking is the third most profitable criminal activity after drugs and arms trafficking. 80% of trafficking victims are women, and an estimated 2 million children are bought and sold each year. 80% of trafficking involves sexual exploitation of vulnerable women, usually under the age of 18. With $4 billion attributed to the brothel industry worldwide, sex trafficking is big business, with very few people ever arrested or convicted of trafficking. Under-reported and under-prosecuted, these girls and women are the silent victims of poverty and war. Many were living in horrific conditions and some were as young as five, depending on older children for their survival. Today, human trafficking is approximately a $31.6 billion global industry, making it the third most lucrative criminal activity in the world after illegal drugs and black-market guns. It's about time we opened our eyes to this grim reality. We are very far from an ideal world, and no one should ever be immune from justice.
 In the U.S., as many as 40,000 kids are trafficked within their own borders each year.
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Hundreds of human trafficking victims are estimated to pass through Finland annually. But for many victims, Finland is the final destination. However in Finland, a large number of suspected human trafficking victims are men who are used for labour. Finland is used as a transit point to other EU countries.

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France is a destination country for women trafficked for the purposes of sexual exploitation and involuntary domestic servitude, primarily from Eastern and Central Europe and Africa. The government estimates that there are 10,000 to 12,000 trafficking victims in France, 3,000-8,000 of whom are children forced into prostitution and labor.

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Over 5,000 women and children have been trafficked from the Philippines, Russia and Eastern Europe and are forced into prostitution in bars servicing the U.S. Military in South Korea.

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British police estimate that up to 4,000 human trafficking victims, mostly women, are being exploited in the UK at any given time.

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Trudie Styler (UNICEF UK) : 
One of my most vivid memories is visiting a woman called Angelina, who was dedicating her life to helping the young girls who had been set to work on the streets as prostitutes. I went to meet many of the young girls myself, the oldest of whom was no more than 17. Nervous at first, each began their own personal account of what had happened to them -- and they had all thought they were coming to the city to earn money as domestic servants or waitresses, that they would be able to send an income back to their families in rural Ecuador, and that this was their chance of a lifetime. A trusted male family member or friend had in each case persuaded the families to hand over their children for the promise of a better life. Their freedom taken, these girls had entered a life of abuse far from home, kept to all intents and purposes as slaves.


"It wasn't too bad... as long as I brought in my quota every night."
"I mean, if I made $2,000 for my pimp he was happy."
If I didn't make that much... that's when he would start beating me."
Sharon was all alone, a 19-year-old runaway taking a trip to nowhere on a New York City subway when he approached. "You're pretty," he told her. "And I bet you're hungry. Let me buy you some food and some clean clothes." As the child of two drug-addicted parents... a child who was sent to live with her grandmother, only to be raped by her grandmother's boyfriend... a young woman who had spent way too many of her 19 years on the streets... this was the best offer she had heard in her brief, tragic life. "Then he took me to his apartment and beat me," she said.
Sharon's pimp enslaved her and forced her to sell her body in cities all across the United States.
"We would work the streets for about a week at a time in each city, until he thought he made as much as he could," Sharon said. "Then we moved on. One girl tried to escape. He beat her and we never saw her again."




Where is the outrage that our children are being bought and sold? Why isn't rescuing the thousands and thousands of children being enslaved a priority?

Aug 22, 2011

The delusion that beauty is goodness.

Why do you want to eat healthy?”
 “So you don’t get fat,”
How do you feel about people who are overweight?”
“I feel sad about them.”

These are answers from 5-8 year old girls. Five to eight. The number of eating disorder hospitalizations for kids under age 12 has more than doubled between 2000 and 2006, according to the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) and nearly half of the 3- to 6-year-old are worried about being fat. In the fact, we “allow” little girls being injected with Botox, being alright with the concept of 10-year-old girls made up to look like a sexy adults posing for cameras and in front of a live audience with their cute dresses. We are constantly making everything be about the way someone looks so where is the surprise that younger and younger kids turn out to feel sick with this society?  Photographing a pre-pubescent girl topless with make-up and heels isn’t edgy. It’s wrong. When you learn from a very young age that sexiness is valued and best, this message is engrained in your brain for the long haul. Studies have demonstrated time and time again that viewing sexualized images can have a lasting effect on young girls. 

The American Psychological Association found that viewing sexualized images promotes “appearance and physical attractiveness” as key values for young girls and was also linked to low self-esteem, eating disorders, and depression. That’s for viewing sexualized images. What if you’re the subject of the sexualized images? Girls should learn that their value comes from what’s on the inside rather than high heels, make-up, expensive clothes and the perfect sultry pout. They even have pole dancing classes for three year olds… Seriously, excuse me, but what the hell. What did I do when I was three? Definitely did not attend to pole dancing classes! I did what every kid did when we still had some sense in our heads. I ran around the fields and roads, took a peak under every rock and behind the trees, held butterflies in my hands, chased all kind of animals just to have a closer look, climbed to the trees and fell down, ate myself sick with candy and enjoyed being carefree when I had the chance. What went wrong in the last 20 years? 

Why are we doing this to our children?

 (Related articles from Care2, here, here and here)
: Do You REALLY want your 3 year old to do this? :

: Necessary? :